As much as it is a taboo, it is no secret that women prefer dating older men over their younger counterparts. Here is a list of 12 reasons why.
Older men have always been and will always be fascinating to women. That's a fact there's no running away from, boys. Of course, we generalize here, and it is possible to find idiots in the older age group too. Likewise, it is also possible to find wise old souls trapped in younger bodies.
You think you do everything right when it comes to wooing women - you manage to look presentable, you crack witty one-liners (stolen from Oscar Wilde's quotes), you text just the right amount, and make the right noises when she speaks. But somehow every girl you like ends up picking your senior instead of you. Pay heed and you might be able to grasp where the problem lies.
Here are 12 reasons why women go for older men.
Now, this is not to say they are boring. They can be witty and interesting as hell. Just that their idea of fun does not include sitting in front of their phone and not picking up their woman's calls.
Not many women fancy the idea of hearing a "Heyyy whaddupp babesss" on their first date. Whether it is pulling chairs, getting flowers, or simply giving a peck on the cheek instead of shoving your tongue down her throat, nothing melts a woman's heart more than keeping things old school.
Older men believe in ladies first – and often work towards that.
The goal isn't to get one orgasm out of her and then have sex. Oh no. While they're getting her hot and bothered during foreplay, they're working hard for her orgasms — plural. They see it as a source of pride when they can cause big, badass orgasms that leave you shaking and weak. It's always a good night when she loses count of her orgasms. Just sayin'.
With all those years in their system, they have to got to be smarter than their younger counterparts busy guzzling pint after pint of beer. Let's face it, boys, older men are wiser and more mature. People are silly when they are young. And women don't like waiting for the boys to grow up.
While everyone likes a stylish and pretty woman, older men don't beat themselves too much over a girl's nail polish or that single strand of white hair. They are more concerned with what lies inside, and are more accepting of a woman's imperfections. Unlike younger boys, they don't attempt to change the woman they fall in love with. They are not judgmental, period.
Older men often hold an image of authority in a woman's mind. Whether it's deciding which place to eat in, or booking that holiday package, they know when to take charge, and do it without being overbearing. Now it is a truth universally acknowledged that women tend to date daddy figures. Somebody who reminds them of their fathers, and assures them (if only subconsciously) of a protected and safe environment. The unsaid promise that they will be there in times of trouble is enough to make a woman's heart melt for them.
The older men are well established in their careers; they are financially more stable, and the promise of a calmer life is something no woman can say no to. It might come across as shallow, but women looking to settle down often tend to go for the nice guy with a stable job and a house.
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